Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Isn't it funny? We always chase the thing we want, hunt it with all of our heart and soul that we arrive at a point where we no longer understand why we are running after it in the first place. We were so blinded of the fact that we fancy that thing the most. We believe so much that without it, life is futile. Yet in the end, when we already own it, we no longer feel the same way as how we really feel from the very first.
Well, life is like that, I bet. We feel jovial the most at the time that we are certain of what we desire but still don't have it. Maybe because it's exciting to catch for a fish that you are craving to eat, but at the time that you already ensnared it, your hunger already dwindled... but still you're going to cook it, and eat it, anyway. Not because you're hankering to eat it, but it's because that's the reason why you're catching a fish in the first place.
So what's the point? We live only once, time may be too long, and too plenty, but once we spent it, we can no longer bring it back. We may be able to achieve what we want in the end, but the time we splurge to have it comes only once.
Having what we think we want, or feel we want, isn't the real deal.REACHING DREAMS isn't really the thing that makes a person the happiest... that only comes second. What makes someone really happy is how they FULFILL their DREAMS.
Enjoy the journey, love the stay, because SUCCESS is only a price for HARD WORK. :)
This is a guest post by my niece, Darian Kaye. She is a graduating Legal Management student at University of Santo Tomas, Philippines. She shares my passion for writing and photography but I must admit she is doing a lot BETTER than me in both areas. Check out her inspiring blog titled Life's Lemon Square.
Monday, June 27, 2011
Thursday, June 23, 2011
i was asked by a couple of friends where does the words come from - referring to my poems and blogs or notes i had been posting here and there. i couldn't quote them verbatim but it was along that line.
where indeed? what i write are by products of life experiences ( both mine and few friends whose stories inspired me to jot down few lines to immortalized those moments of inspiration), memories of my childhood and some are just result of my over active imagination plus the fact that i love to read somehow makes it easy for me to express myself in a rhetorical way. i am not an eloquent speaker. i dreaded the thought of me giving lectures at workplace and engaging in small talks hence the love for written words emerged and rightfully so - otherwise, i have no means left to express myself clearly. sometimes, a word leaps out from nowhere and starts to nudge - in a manner of speaking. it won't leave me alone until i give in to that command to put it into writing - actually happened on few occasions though far and wide in between. i remembered when i was young ( i think i was around 8 or 9 then), my father used to send me to the nearest news stand to buy him newspaper on weekends. there, somewhere at the bottom corner in one of the pages of manila bulletin was a small segment with proverbs and quote which i religiously cut-off and kept to be read again and again. i was in highschool when i started reading paperbacks and haven't stop since then. it sure does helps to get a grip on one's commands of words and most certainly aids the flow of creative juice. another peculiar habit of mine when i started working and had ample of time to kill was go to national bookstore and just browsed card after card reading those heart-warming passages. i don't know why yet i was transfixed by it like a moth to a flame. i may have outgrown reading hardy boys, nancy drew plus a shelf full of mills and boon and collecting cut-off quotes and proverbs, but i never outgrown my love of reading and quotes. i can only wish the same for my daughter, that she falls in- love with it as i did....well, i still am!.
there are habits that dies hard and reading sure fits to that category! its fun, informative, mind boggling, thought provoking and you can enjoy it for free ( borrow it from the library ). i say acquire that habit and keep it going - it's not too late, never! who knows, it could be the catalyst that makes you write your own book and be the toast of the town.
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
Last month, we received an awful call from my brother saying my mom missed the last step of the stairs and fell landing on her hip bone. She fractured her hip bone and had to be rushed to the emergency room. She had a surgery and they replaced a portion of her hip bone. It was an awful ordeal but we're glad she's doing well now. She is recovering fast albeit not that comfortable. She has to use the wheelchair for awhile, though the doctors assured us that she can walk normally again. It is a good thing however that she has strong bones, otherwise she could have suffered a great deal more.
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Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Sunday, June 12, 2011
alas! the pain remains
the wind whispers a name
and i am taken back to then
love if true never ends
no time can mellow
neither distance can tame
oceans apart and miles away
in thoughts and heart.....
forever you'll stay
In season five of The Nanny Elton John made a guest appearance. It is, without a doubt, one of my favorite celebrity cameos in a TV comedy. The premise of the episode is that Maxwell agrees to take Nanny Fine on a date to see the premier of Elton's documentary. From that point it explodes into one mishap after another.
Fran doesn't realize that she is in the documentary as the annoying "yoo hoo" girl who interrupts Elton playing tennis. When she finds this fact out it sets her on a course of trying to avoid being found out by Elton, whom she is having dinner with. The way that Fran plays out her situation comedy has great timing. It reminds me a great deal of Lucille Ball.
After a long day of work, I love to curl up in bed and watch The Nanny on channels that www.cabletelevision.net. Even though the Elton John episode is one of my favorites the show was known for its extensive list of celebrity guest stars. Some other notable celebrities who guest starred were Chevy Chase, Elizabeth Taylor, Celine Dion and the late Lynn Redgrave.
Saturday, June 11, 2011
1. finely chop mushrooms (i prefer brown, like portabello, shitake, or whatever brown so that it looks like real burger, teeehee)
2. saute mushroom in olive oil until tender.
3. in a separate bowl, beat egg and blend in sauteed mushroom.
4. add finely chopped onions and garlic. Garlic can be optional, I just love with garlic, but not too much also.
5. season with salt and pepper. ( i also add a little bit of mustard, just very little for taste- mustard and nutmeg are optional)
5. Slowly add flour and bread crumbs (alternating them), until the mixture thickens and can be formed to patties.
6. shape into burger patties.
7. Either bake or pan fry in olive oil.
ingredients: olive oil, mushroom, garlic, onion, milk ( we use 1% milk at home, but half and half or full cream fresh milk would taste creamier i believe), corn starch to thicken, worcestershire sauce, salt, a little bit of sugar and pepper to taste.
1. saute garlic and onions in olive oil until they are golden brown and smells good.
2. add mushroom and sautee until mushroom is tender.
3. dissolve cornstarch in milk.
4. add the cornstarch and milk mixture.
5. simmer. season with salt, pepper, worcestershire sauce, a little bit of brown sugar and garlic powder.
6. continue stirring until the sauce thickens.
7. add the mushroom burger and simmer until they absorb the taste.
Friday, June 10, 2011
Thursday, June 2, 2011
i often wondered why some people brings out the best and few the worst in me. the hubby has his theory on that; he says some unfortunate souls and me shares a very dominant characteristics hence we repel. that got me thinking. so, i don't get pretty well with ---- because me thinking that she thinks highly of herself and a pretencious b*%$ ( pardon my french, got carried away in describing what might have been me!!) which translate, i think highly of me self and a ....- well, you get the point!
i like a good and healthy argument and if someone is as passionate as i on a certain subject and don't see eye to eye, it could potentially turn to a heated argument......lol! the reason i might have ( emphasis on might have..here) dislike someone - at this point in my writing it is still inconclusive - is that i myself possessed the same appalling attibutes. OUCH!!! reality sucks and more than that, it really bites! by now, i had to concede that there is a slice of truth to my hubby's hypothesis, if i'm to be truthful. sometimes, i am so preoccupied of trying to pull the wool out of someone else's eyes blinded by the fact that mine -figuratively - are abundantly covered with it. often times, i learned life the hard ways and the truth harder still. it isn't a pleasant encounter coming face to face with your frailty. it makes me fell vulnerable to elements i tried hard to protect myself from. it exist to served as a shell to keep the soft core within safe. those rough edges though an intrinsic part of me can also be a stumbling block that pulls me down - relationships wise. to sand my rough edges to smoothness - if not to perfection - requires a painful process of admitting to myself there are part of me that needs to change NOW. i look at my daughter and feels a tinge of guilt. kids always looks up to their parents and copy the kind of behavior we display around them. the apple will not fall far from its tree. i want her to fall gracefully on a favorable ground with less of weeds and more of good healthy soil. isn't that what we all want for our kids? for her sake this old grumpy dog can still be taught new tricks, not an easy task but its worth a try.
you may have different say on the matter, that's absolutely fine. i want to be proven wrong if thats what it takes to see the light.